Medicine to delay ejaculation in men

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Do you think you suffer from premature ejaculation? Don't fret - here are some tips and techniques to help you slow it down.

By Martin Downs
WebMD Feature

Reviewed By Michael Smith

You don't have to admit it to your buddies. You don't have to stand up in a support group and say, "My name is ... " It's enough to admit to yourself that sometimes you climax too quickly during sex; or at times, you're not able to ejaculate at all.

Premature Ejaculation: Strategies for Staying

Are you a premature ejaculator? The answer is another question: Do you think you are? It's subjective.

A man may ejaculate before intercourse even begins. Few would doubt that counts as "premature." But what if you typically reach orgasm after only a minute or so? You may consider yourself a premature ejaculator then, if your goal is take a woman to extremes of ecstasy. But there are problems with that conclusion.

First, it assumes she'll have an orgasm if you last longer, because women tend to climax later than men do. "There's a lot more to it than thrusting, " says sex educator Beverly Whipple, PhD. Many women simply don't have orgasms with their partners, while they do on their own. Second, some women don't have orgasms though vaginal intercourse. Only clitoral stimulation does it for them. So don't think that once you master your orgasm, you'll master hers, too. What's more, Whipple says, if you focus solely on your stamina during intercourse, "you miss out on a whole lot of the fun along the way."

That said, here's what you can do.

Wrap it. Some men find the sensation of sex without a condom too intense, causing them to lose control quickly. Think about when your troubles began. Perhaps you always used condoms while you were roving; then when you got a monogamous partner you shucked them.

Know yourself. It may have been in our evolutionary best interest to ejaculate quickly: Impregnate the female and move on before predators find you in a compromising position. According to this theory, "The ability to prolong intercourse is a learned response, " says Drogo Montague, MD, director of the Center for Sexual Function at The Cleveland Clinic.

To learn control, you must be aware of your sexual response and recognize when you're approaching "the point of no return." Before you get there, lessen the stimulation by slowing down or stopping. Once that feeling subsides, you resume until you reach the threshold again, then slow or stop, over and over. It takes practice - time spent experimenting with masturbation or frequent sex with a patient partner.

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